But JP did sound really good when he called. He's got a few people writing to him and he really enjoys that. If anyone out there in blog land has it in their heart to write to a 24 year old who's trying to get through a terrible time in his life, let me know and i'll give you his contact information. I asked him if my mom happened to visit him while she spent 5 days in Houston while evacuating from Louisiana, but she didn't. My sister lives 30 minutes from the jail but nobody ever visits him until I come to town to see him. She has tried once recently to visit, but there were problems at the jail that night and she hasn't been back. When the weather settles down, I want to plan a weekend trip to see him. It really makes me feel good to visit him and see how good and healthy he looks. As bad as the whole situation is, I feel so lucky to still have him and to be able to see and talk to him. I honestly don't think he would be alive today if things hadn't happened to land him in jail the way they did.
Speaking of people in Houston, my sister, Donna, is under a voluntary evacuation due to Hurricane Ike. She is actually outside of Houston in Pearland and says they were told to "stay put." I have offered that she & her husband can come stay here if needed. It's a little awkward, because I wont have her sons here who are drug users/sellers, but they don't live with her currently and she didn't mention them coming, but that's probably because i've made it clear that I wont have that in my house. I am the anti-drug. Drugs have destroyed my oldest son and I've made a stand to not allow it around my younger son. Kids come in contact with drugs all the time, but I wont welcome it in my house. Did I mention both of her kids have been arrested for dealing drugs in the last 6 months? Yeah. Anyway, she said they will probably "stay put" as they are being told, plus nobody is 100% sure that Ike wont turn and come here! And just to give credit where credit is due, for all of us who prayed that Ike would stay away from Louisiana, God has answered our prayers and sent this storm all AROUND Louisiana, but is keeping it away from us so far!!
Tonight is steak night at Hilltop! Yay! It's my favorite night of the week! Brent is out of town for work, so Walter, Cathy, & I are going. I am so ready!!!! I had a long day with a few meetings at work, so I'm ready to relax alittle bit. 2 of the kids I went to see were absent, so I didn't have a whole lot to do. One of them (pre-k) was actually sent home after he bit the speech teacher! So yeah, I have my work cut out for me with him. He doesn't speak English and really doesn't speak at all.Have I said how wonderful my husband is lately? Not only is he the smartest man I know, but he's the sweetest man I know too! I should add the phrase he adds for me when he says things like that. He says, "Ohhhh you are SOOOO sweet - when you want to be!" He he he. Anywho, I have been really sad about the fish dying in the river. Seriously, when you look in the water, they are either already dead and floating or gasping for air. Last night I asked him if there was ANY way to help them, like, I don't know, put oxygen in the water or something. He said that there really wasn't. So, later last night I was locking the house up before we went to bed and he said not to lock the garage because he still had a hose going out to the river. I said, a water hose? He said, no, the air compressor hose to see if the air going into the water attracted any of the dying fish! Awwww!! Maybe he can save a few? I thought it was really sweet! But i'm sure they're all dead anyway!
No word from the neighbors about the missing swimming pool ladder. Good thing, because I am totally ready to defend my position and to let them know that we aren't comfortable with the little girl being in the pool anymore because of the lack of supervision, plus we are having to make repairs due to other people's use of the pool (jumping off the ladder, hanging on the sides), when all I use the pool for is to float and read my book. It really isn't the little girl's fault that she is so obnoxious, but it is still hard to be around her. Her mother is a single parent who adopted the little girl, so I guess she just spoils her and lets her do what she wants. I am sure when I tell her that I'm not comfortable with the little girl in the pool without someone watching her, she will tell me i'm wrong - she'll say something like "I can see her from the house and she's fine," or something. I will have to say, "It is MY pool and MY rules, not yours." The neighbors truly are nice people and the niece and brat don't live there - except for now until their power comes back on (please hurry Mr. Nice Electricity Man). I will say that ever since that night, her car has not been next door, so either her power came back on or they had a fight about her letting the little girl in the pool and she left. I'm just sayin...Anyway, they are nice people, but the man is just too involved in our lives. I think they think we are the kids they never had or something. But we aren't! I've already got a set of dysfunctional parents, but thanks anyway!! This is the same neighbor who called and woke me up recently to let me know I forgot to take my garbage out! I do try to be patient and we do look out for them since they are older (in their 70s), but I'm not going to put up with any craziness. A few people asked about putting up a fence, but the only thing we can really do in our neighborhood is put a fence around the pool, which would look kind of funny because above ground pools are already so tall. Our neighborhood has restrictions against fences in the yards because of the view of the river, so we can't put anything between our yard and theirs.
That's all I've got! Have a great evening!!!




18 comments:
It's Houston/Galvestons turn with Ike this time. I hope your son will be safe!
Meanwhile, enjoy the steak!
Dang girl!! You have a lot to say tonight!
Ike looks awfully scarey... I'll be saying a prayer for your son and family... and all the people down there.
Everyone will be in our prayers for their safety including your son and the other inmates.
You have a very honest post and I respect that about you. I wish my 2nd cousin could find it in her heart to feel the same way for her son who is in prison. Instead, she is very bitter and angry at God. While he's been in prison he too has grown up (unfortunately the hard way.) I honestly believe if it weren't for his incarceration he may not be alive today either. However, when it's your son it's a bit more difficult to see the light at the end of such a dark tunnel I guess. Especially, when he is in there for a crime he did not commit. Her son was involved with drugs but is in prison for murder. He wasn't even in town the night of the murder but because he associated with the two boys who killed the guy he was made an example of. HONEST! That is what the court decision said. Yikes! Makes for a whole new way of thinking about who your friends are doesn't it?
I haven't finished reading what you posted today yet, but I wanted to say how much I appreciate your honesty and your love when it comes to your family. Your love for your son, the uncoditional love you have for him is so heart warming. I wish all parents were as generous with there love.
Looks like its our turn now! Please say a prayer for all of us Texans!
Enjoy your steak, you so deserve it!!
I hope you have fun at "steak night". Hope your son stays safe, I will be thinking of him until this passes.
I will be praying for JP and for you with the neighbors ... haha
good post and I will be looking for more!
Hope you enjoyed Steak Night! Your blog cracked me up! From one extreme to the next, huh? Sorry to hear about your son, but it's nice to know your position on the drug thing. I hope your son will be okay in Houston! Have a great weekend!!
Hope you have a great night at steak night! I LOVE going out to eat too!
I'm sure JP will be fine in Houston. I'm thinking that Galveston will get the worst of it.
I think your nosey neighbor came over when we went to visit y'all last summer. LOL Isn't he the one who brought you some magazines?
Thanks for stopping by my blog today...our sons are the same age!
You know until you wrote this I never thought about people who are in jail/prison and CAN'T leave with a hurricane. My heart goes out to him. But it sounds like a solid building...I'm sure he will be fine.
Have fun tonight, take a couple of bites for me. I will keep you son in my prayers. Thanks for stopping by today. Much Love.
Prayers for the safety of your son, and everyone in Texas in Ike's path. Very scary storm.
Your husband is so sweet trying to save some of the fish.
You know, I would have a hard time with neighbors like that myself. Luckily, my nearest enighbors are 1/4 mile away, and nice as well.
They don't bother anyone, but are there to help if one needs help in the neighborhood.
Take good care, and hope the weekend goes well, and everyone will be safe!
Hugs,
Renie
Dawn...I will write to your son! My oldest son got into trouble when he was a teenager and while there was no jail...it was serious! We made it as a family...everyone on this planet makes mistakes and God isn't ever finished with us! My son is now 28 and has a beautiful wife, two children and I couldn't be more proud of who he is! He talks to teenagers today about what happened in his life.
You said it very nicely...they are sons, fathers, brothers, uncles to some of each of us. Thank you for sharing and I will hold him in my prayers!
OK first IT is FRIDAY! YAY! I will keep you and your son in our thoughts and prayers over the next few days!
NOW you and Walter should GO have a ROMANTIC DATE tonight because well I can not with my HUSBAND and YOU can so there! LOL LOL OK did I make you laugh!
I would so hate hate to see all the dying fish. That really bites!
OOO the PRE K....I already feel sorry for HIM. Can you JUST imagine what is going on in that CHILDS mind NOT NOT understanding ENGLISH or hardly talking....HE is probably confused and scared to death. OK I only say that because MY HUSBAND told me how when he come to the UNITED STATES at 7 and did not know a single word of ENGLISH....it was scary. HIS MOTHER off working and he is thrown in to a school situation where he did not know or yet trust the people! OOO the poor little KIDDO....but at least YOU YOU YOU are there to HELP! YOU are going to ROCK THIS ONE I JUST KNOW IT!
When I heard that Ike was heading for the Houston area yesterday, I instantly panicked because I knew JP and Donna are there. I know that you are sometimes able to call the prison to get information about different things. Is that an option right now? You are right about each of the people in prison are someone's child, parent, brother, sister, husband, etc. Sometimes good people make bad choices. You know how I feel about JP :-) I'm going to pray with you that the prison authorities know what they are doing, and that JP and the rest of the people in prison there are kept SAFE. Hey, maybe if on your next trip over there you feel like having company, I could ride with you. I don't know what the rules are about visiting, but I would LOVE to see JP. And, if I can't see him, that's cool too... I just just be there for YOU!!
Those poor fish!!! Since I am so used to people fishing, I normally wouldn't think too much about a fish dying. But, what is happening due to these storms isn't normal and it would be so sad to see ANY animal gasping to breathe and to see them suffering!! Walter ROCKS!!!
Me too - I will be praying. What a great mom you are. Enjoy your steak.
Bless your heart! I will pray for JP. Maybe jail saved his life like you said. Drugs are a bad bad thing we all know. You try and tell your kids about the dangers and just pray that it sinks in. I have great kids but I have learned to never say never when you have a teenager. I hope to keep it open so we can always talk about stuff. Im so sorry that you and your JP are going through this mess. Just think how strong you both will be when he gets out and back into the real world.
I hope your sister is saafe too. I have a good friend in The Woodlands. It's just north of Houston. I just called her and all is well so far. She was told to stay put too.
Good for you and that ladder. Maybe they just might have gotten the hint, smile.
Walter... you are a great great guy. I dont know many that would have done something so sweet. Gail you are blessed~ Yall take care
I sure hope JP is able to evaluate and things turn around for him. A drug habit is one of the worst things to keep away from. Hugely because they go back to the same friends. The 'good' kids think they are bad. The 'good' kids need a talk about being friends and example!!
I am anything but 'racy' but maybe putting something like that in the mail box would help cure your neighbor. But then he would spread the gossip. That might not work. On tv they have things that jump out at you. Wonder if the sell that kind of thing:) It would make me feel stupid, that is for sure!
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